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Silvia de Negrobosco's avatar

Read this great essay a while ago and had to come back to comment.

I agree with you, especially the part about loving specifics more than concepts. I think, though, that there are just two different kinds of Beauty that people conflate: The one that you describe, which has real meaning for discernment in the world and is therefore discriminatory. Then there is the spiritual one, that the former is a symbol of, as you describe. That entirely depends upon your state of mind to perceive, and can be found anywhere, even in places people would call ”ugly”.

I think the experience of discerning beauty (loving specific things) ultimately can train us to perceive the capital B Beauty (seeing your unconditional love reflected in the world), but it also depends on us to get into the right state of mind. To borrow a saying from buddhism, conditional beauty is like ”the finger pointing to the moon”. We can easily stay enamoured with the finger, and never perceive the moon. And the more we let go of chasing beauty and instead cultivate the love, paradoxically, the more specific beautiful things we will find to delight us.

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